What do I do during a mental breakdown?

First hour: get safe, slow your breath out (4 in, 7 out), call one person, postpone every non-essential decision. Next 24 hours: sleep, hydrate, eat, no alcohol. Within a week: book an assessment. If you have suicidal thoughts, call Tele-MANAS 14416 or 112 immediately.

I'm having thoughts of suicide. What do I do?

Please call Tele-MANAS at 14416 or 1800-891-4416 right now. If there is immediate danger, call 112 for police, ambulance or fire emergency response. You are not alone, and this state is treatable. After the call, message Dr. Sodhi's team on WhatsApp for clinical follow-up.

Is it anxiety or ADHD?

Both can cause restlessness, poor focus and overwhelm — but ADHD attention difficulties are lifelong and present even when calm, whereas anxiety-driven attention loss appears alongside worry and physical tension. Take the ASRS-v1.1 and GAD-7 together for an objective read.

What is OCD and do I have it?

OCD is defined by intrusive unwanted thoughts (obsessions) that drive repetitive behaviours or mental acts (compulsions) consuming an hour or more a day. Liking things tidy isn't OCD. The free OCI-R screener on this site gives an objective read.

How do I stop overthinking everything?

Overthinking is a regulation problem, not a thinking problem. The fastest break: name the loop out loud, lengthen your exhale, widen your visual field, and ask 'what is the one next action?' Repeating this trains the brain out of the loop within weeks.

How do I know if I have anxiety?

Anxiety becomes clinical when worry is persistent (most days for 2+ weeks), feels uncontrollable, and interferes with sleep, work or relationships. The fastest objective check is the free GAD-7 self-test on this site.

How do I stop a panic attack right now?

Lengthen the exhale to twice the inhale, soften the jaw and shoulders, widen your visual field beyond the immediate scene, and name five neutral objects out loud. Most attacks peak within 10 minutes; this protocol shortens that window significantly.

How do I cope with grief after losing someone?

Grief has no schedule. The healthiest path is to feel it in waves rather than push it away — protect sleep and basic routines, accept help, and avoid major life decisions for 6–12 months. If grief feels frozen or worsens after 6 months, please seek clinical support.

What is postpartum depression and how do I know if I have it?

Postpartum depression affects roughly 1 in 7 Indian mothers and can begin any time in the first year after birth. Signs: persistent low mood, hopelessness, intrusive thoughts about the baby, inability to feel connected. The EPDS screener is appropriate; please seek help early.

Is it normal to cry a lot for no reason?

Occasional unexplained crying is normal. Frequent crying — most days for 2+ weeks — usually has a cause: depression, anxiety, hormonal changes, thyroid dysfunction, sleep deprivation or grief. Take the PHQ-9 here and please consult a clinician for a basic medical workup.

What are the symptoms of bipolar disorder?

Bipolar disorder involves distinct episodes of elevated mood (mania or hypomania — reduced sleep need, racing thoughts, grandiosity, risky behaviour) alternating with depressive episodes. Diagnosis requires a psychiatric assessment; mood swings alone are not bipolar.

Am I depressed or just sad?

Sadness is proportionate to a cause and lifts within days to weeks. Depression is persistent for two weeks or more, flattens pleasure (anhedonia), affects sleep, appetite, energy and concentration, and often has no clear trigger. The PHQ-9 is the standard 2-minute check.

Why do I feel empty for no reason?

Persistent emptiness most often reflects anhedonia — the dampening of the brain's reward response. It is a core feature of depression and burnout, and it responds well to structured treatment. It almost never means 'nothing is wrong with you'.

Why does my anxiety get worse at night?

At night the brain has fewer external inputs, so internal threat-prediction gets louder. Combined with a tired prefrontal cortex (which normally dampens the alarm), worry feels amplified. Stimulus control plus paced breathing is the fastest fix.

How do I fix insomnia without medication?

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) is more effective than sleeping pills for chronic insomnia and the effect lasts. The core moves are stimulus control, sleep restriction, fixed wake time and decoupling the bed from worry.

How do I deal with work stress without quitting my job?

Most work stress is a recovery deficit, not a workload problem. Protect three things: sleep window, micro-recoveries during the day (90-second breath resets every 90 minutes), and one screen-free evening hour. If symptoms persist after 4 weeks, take the PSS-10 here.

What is imposter syndrome and how do I overcome it?

Imposter syndrome is the persistent belief that your achievements are luck, not competence — most common in high-performing people. It eases when you stop arguing with the feeling and instead collect concrete evidence in writing, and recalibrate your reference group.

How do I stop doom-scrolling and reclaim my attention?

Doom-scrolling is a dopamine pattern, not a willpower failure. The fix: greyscale your phone, kill notifications except people, install one-app friction (move social apps off the home screen, log out daily), and replace — not just remove — the scroll with a five-minute alternative.

What's the difference between stress and anxiety?

Stress is a response to a real, identifiable demand and lifts when the demand lifts. Anxiety persists in the absence of a demand and is driven by the brain's prediction system. Stress responds to load management; anxiety responds to regulation training.

How do I recover from burnout?

Burnout has three signatures — exhaustion, cynicism and reduced accomplishment — and recovery requires changing the system, not lowering the load temporarily. Restore the body, then regulation, then meaning, in that order.

How do I stop feeling lonely?

Loneliness is a signal, not a flaw. The fastest research-backed antidote isn't more contacts — it's three weekly micro-rituals of in-person, shared-activity contact (a class, a walking group, a regular meal). Quality and rhythm matter more than quantity.

What is my attachment style and does it really matter?

Attachment style is the template for how you do close relationships, formed in childhood but modifiable in adulthood. It matters because it predicts relationship satisfaction more than personality match. The good news: it can change with secure relationships and structured therapy.

How do I tell my Indian parents I need mental health help?

Frame it medically, not emotionally — 'I'm not sleeping well and want to see a doctor about it.' Bring concrete examples and a screener result. Expect initial pushback; persistence usually wins. If parents refuse, you can still seek help yourself from age 18.

How do I handle conflict in my relationship without it escalating?

Decades of research point to four habits that predict breakdown — criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling. Replace them with: complaint without character attack, appreciation, taking responsibility, and asking for a 20-minute pause to self-regulate.

How do I help someone with anxiety?

Don't reassure ('you'll be fine') and don't fix ('just stop worrying'). Instead: validate the feeling, sit with them while they breathe out longer than in, and offer to help them take one small concrete step. Reassurance feeds anxiety; presence dissolves it.

How do I help someone with depression?

Listen without trying to fix. Don't say 'just be positive' or 'others have it worse'. Help them keep small daily structures (sleep, meals, sunlight). Gently support them to see a professional. You are not their therapist; you are their anchor.

Can I quit an addiction on my own, or do I need help?

Mild patterns can sometimes be unwound alone. Moderate-to-severe patterns — daily use, withdrawal symptoms, repeated failed attempts, social or work consequences — need clinical support. Quitting alcohol or benzodiazepines abruptly without medical supervision can be dangerous.

What is the difference between a psychologist, psychiatrist and counsellor?

A psychiatrist is an MD doctor who can prescribe medication. A clinical psychologist (RCI-registered, MPhil) does assessment and structured therapy. A counsellor (MA Psychology) provides supportive talk-based work. For moderate-to-severe symptoms, start with a psychiatrist or clinical psychologist.

What is emotional regulation and how do I improve mine?

Emotional regulation is the capacity to feel a strong emotion without being controlled by it. It strengthens with four practices: naming the feeling precisely, slow exhalation, brief delay before action, and journalling the trigger-response loop weekly.

What is self-compassion and is it different from self-esteem?

Self-compassion is treating yourself the way you'd treat a friend going through the same thing. Unlike self-esteem (which depends on success), self-compassion is stable across failure and consistently predicts better mental health outcomes than self-esteem in research.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

Yes — for most common conditions like anxiety, depression, insomnia and burnout, online therapy is supported by strong evidence as equally effective as in-person care. In-person is preferred for severe trauma, psychosis, eating disorders or active suicidal risk.

How much does a psychologist cost in India?

Clinical psychologist consultations in India typically range from ₹800–₹3,500 per session in metros, and psychiatrist consultations from ₹1,000–₹5,000. Free options include government Tele-MANAS (14416) and the AI Psychologist on this site.

What causes mental illness?

Mental illness emerges from the interaction of biological vulnerability (genes, brain chemistry), life events (trauma, loss, chronic stress), environment (sleep, relationships, finances) and meaning (the story the mind tells about it). Single-cause explanations are almost always wrong.

Is mental illness genetic? Will I pass it to my children?

Most mental health conditions have a heritable component (depression ~40%, bipolar ~70%, schizophrenia ~80%) but heritability means risk, not destiny. Environment, lifestyle and early intervention substantially modify whether genes ever express as illness.

How can I improve my mental health naturally?

Five levers, in order of evidence: regular sleep (7–9 hours, fixed wake time), 150 minutes a week of moderate aerobic exercise, sunlight in the first hour of waking, real social contact daily, and a structured wind-down 60 minutes before bed. Each is supported by stronger evidence than any over-the-counter supplement.

Do I need therapy or is talking to a friend enough?

Friends are essential. They are not a substitute for therapy when distress is persistent (2+ weeks), interfering with function, or being kept secret from them. A clinician brings structure, training and a different kind of attention that friendship is not designed for.

Do I need medication or therapy?

Mild-to-moderate cases respond well to therapy alone. Moderate-to-severe cases — especially with significant sleep disruption, suicidal ideation or psychotic features — usually need medication alongside therapy. Decision belongs with a qualified clinician, not a search bar.

What is Cognitive Regulation therapy?

Cognitive Regulation (CR) is Dr. Sodhi's clinical method that works on body, attention, language and meaning together. It treats most mental suffering as downstream of nervous-system dysregulation and produces measurable change in 4–6 weeks for most patients.

How long does therapy take to work?

Most patients feel a noticeable shift in sleep, breath and inner-critic volume within 2 weeks. Symptom-level change typically lands at 4–6 weeks. Lasting change takes 6–12 sessions. If nothing has shifted by session 4, the approach or the fit needs to change.

Which mental health self-test should I take first?

Start with K10 if unsure (general distress). Use PHQ-9 for low mood, GAD-7 for anxiety, ISI for sleep, PSS-10 for stress, AUDIT-C for alcohol, ASRS for adult ADHD, OCI-R for OCD, PC-PTSD-5 for trauma, WHO-5 for general wellbeing.

What is the best mental health app in India?

The best mental health platform for Indians is one that is free, clinically supervised, and offers validated screeners plus a real AI Psychologist with a clear handoff to a human clinician — which is exactly what CheckMentalHealth.in provides.

Is the AI Psychologist on CheckMentalHealth.in actually free?

Yes. The AI Psychologist on CheckMentalHealth.in is fully free, available 24×7, requires no sign-up, no email and no payment. It is offered as a public-good first responder by Dr. Nitnem Singh Sodhi and Bharat Neurotech.

Is the AI Psychologist on CheckMentalHealth.in private?

Yes. Conversations are kept to your browser session, not linked to any account, not used to train external models. There is no sign-up, so we have nothing to identify you with.

Can the AI Psychologist replace a real therapist?

No. The AI is a competent first responder, screener and psychoeducator available 24×7. It is not a diagnostician and does not replace a clinician for moderate-to-severe presentations or any case where medication may be indicated.